Penda
Saturday marked the beginning of the weeklong vacation of Toussaint here. All of my roommates are gone except Penda, who I am discovering more and more about and I think I may have made a new best friend. She is usually the only one home anyways, but she’s usually busy studying and I’m usually busy getting ready to go somewhere else, whether it be out to a bar with a few friends from California or traveling to a new place for the weekend. So here’s a little bit about Penda:
She’s originally from Senegal and is just beautiful. She’s taller than I am (but not by much) and has long braided hair. She has a sweet smile and a happy demeanor. She’s 22, I think, and is studying Math and Computer Sciences here. She thinks I’m lucky because I seem to never be in class and never have any homework to do and she is always working hard on her studies. But we manage to run into each other in the kitchen each night at about dinner time and this past week we have spent hours talking and getting to know each other. I am helping her with her English, which she speaks extremely well, and she helps me with my French, which I don’t speak as well, but she is very encouraging and is good at explaining my mistakes to me without making me feel like this is impossible.
Everyone in my apartment keeps their door closed, like our rooms are our own sacred spaces and you have to have a special invitation to come in. But I keep mine open because I love to have people come bug me :- ) So Penda has come and chatted with me in my room a few times and Friday night she was looking through my music. She mentioned that over-played Hoobastank song, “The Reason” and I told her I had the CD. She freaked out and we listened to the song about 5 times in a row. I really can’t stand it but I was happy to share with her and it seemed to make her happy too. I even typed out the lyrics so she could figure out what they were saying and she loved it! It was so funny.. It was like giving a kid a candy bar and watching her savor every bite.
Today she’s going to show me pictures of her family as soon as she’s done cleaning her room and she told me she had to pray first - it’s Ramadan and about 60% of the population in GRENOBLE, if not more, is Muslim. I’m looking forward to learning a lot more about her traditions and beliefs. She’s already told me that she has 6 other siblings because where she comes from they practice polygamy. She says it’s hard for the wife but in general it’s very common and accepted there. I really can’t wait to learn a lot more about her and what her life is like in Senegal.
I think she’s so funny though… In a lot of ways she’s just like a teenager. One of her friends was staying with us while she was looking for an apartment and one night had some friends over to study. One of them was a good looking guy and I walked in and Penda was all giggly and smiley. For a moment I thought maybe she was drunk, but that definitely wasn’t the case. She told me later that she is pretty much afraid of boys because she always ends up having crushes on them. So I’m pretty sure that applies to the one who was in our kitchen that night. It was so cute though, it reminded me of being back in junior high and turning beet red whenever Travis Cassidy would walk by. Ah, the trials and tribulations of being an adolescent. Sometimes we never grow out of it.
A bit after I wrote everything you just read I got to see all the pictures of Penda's family. With 2 older sisters, 2 younger sisters and a brother, her family is quite big. But they seem pretty tightly knit which is cool. There's nothing like knowing that no matter where you arein the world there's somebody (or in her case, 6 somebodys) back home who loves you. She and I spent the rest of the day going over pictures and talking about our families, and about how hungry she was - fasting for Ramadan would make me pretty hungry too. She has to do a presentation in English for one of her classes and she wants to do it on Madonna so she was asking me about her. I was sorry that I had nothing to report, but I think she'll do just fine. She speaks English much better than I speak French so she has nothing to worry about. It's difficult sometimes, when she doesn't understand what I'm trying to say so she asks me to speak in English because she understands it better than my French. It's very discouraging, but I'm thankful that she is being so patient with me.
Liv
She’s originally from Senegal and is just beautiful. She’s taller than I am (but not by much) and has long braided hair. She has a sweet smile and a happy demeanor. She’s 22, I think, and is studying Math and Computer Sciences here. She thinks I’m lucky because I seem to never be in class and never have any homework to do and she is always working hard on her studies. But we manage to run into each other in the kitchen each night at about dinner time and this past week we have spent hours talking and getting to know each other. I am helping her with her English, which she speaks extremely well, and she helps me with my French, which I don’t speak as well, but she is very encouraging and is good at explaining my mistakes to me without making me feel like this is impossible.
Everyone in my apartment keeps their door closed, like our rooms are our own sacred spaces and you have to have a special invitation to come in. But I keep mine open because I love to have people come bug me :- ) So Penda has come and chatted with me in my room a few times and Friday night she was looking through my music. She mentioned that over-played Hoobastank song, “The Reason” and I told her I had the CD. She freaked out and we listened to the song about 5 times in a row. I really can’t stand it but I was happy to share with her and it seemed to make her happy too. I even typed out the lyrics so she could figure out what they were saying and she loved it! It was so funny.. It was like giving a kid a candy bar and watching her savor every bite.
Today she’s going to show me pictures of her family as soon as she’s done cleaning her room and she told me she had to pray first - it’s Ramadan and about 60% of the population in GRENOBLE, if not more, is Muslim. I’m looking forward to learning a lot more about her traditions and beliefs. She’s already told me that she has 6 other siblings because where she comes from they practice polygamy. She says it’s hard for the wife but in general it’s very common and accepted there. I really can’t wait to learn a lot more about her and what her life is like in Senegal.
I think she’s so funny though… In a lot of ways she’s just like a teenager. One of her friends was staying with us while she was looking for an apartment and one night had some friends over to study. One of them was a good looking guy and I walked in and Penda was all giggly and smiley. For a moment I thought maybe she was drunk, but that definitely wasn’t the case. She told me later that she is pretty much afraid of boys because she always ends up having crushes on them. So I’m pretty sure that applies to the one who was in our kitchen that night. It was so cute though, it reminded me of being back in junior high and turning beet red whenever Travis Cassidy would walk by. Ah, the trials and tribulations of being an adolescent. Sometimes we never grow out of it.
A bit after I wrote everything you just read I got to see all the pictures of Penda's family. With 2 older sisters, 2 younger sisters and a brother, her family is quite big. But they seem pretty tightly knit which is cool. There's nothing like knowing that no matter where you arein the world there's somebody (or in her case, 6 somebodys) back home who loves you. She and I spent the rest of the day going over pictures and talking about our families, and about how hungry she was - fasting for Ramadan would make me pretty hungry too. She has to do a presentation in English for one of her classes and she wants to do it on Madonna so she was asking me about her. I was sorry that I had nothing to report, but I think she'll do just fine. She speaks English much better than I speak French so she has nothing to worry about. It's difficult sometimes, when she doesn't understand what I'm trying to say so she asks me to speak in English because she understands it better than my French. It's very discouraging, but I'm thankful that she is being so patient with me.
Liv
